I And My self Theory!
Few years ago, a friend of mine displayed an act which changed my mode of reasoning.
On our way to the village he bought all the necessary things needed for the Christmas holiday including some treasures which I felt that where not really important for our journey.
I enquired to know his reasons for spending recklessly and his reply was "I and My self must take responsibility of everything that I need and nobody can offer me anything useful in the village".
On getting to the village everything went well till we finally lacked matches or lighter to on the gas cooker.
That very morning, we went for early morning workouts, on returning, My friend checked the nearest shops so as to purchase matches or lighter yet he couldn't get any.
We where so devastated due to the hunger, just then, a little boy crossing the road greeted us.
He came nearer and discovered our pressing need, he went into the kitchen, brought some dried leaves together coupled with the dry sticks which where all in our compound, picked up a stone and did the greatest magic I had ever seen. He actually succeeded in lightening the fire wood.
We thanked him and gave him some Naira notes.
Lesson:
God created Eve because Adam can't stand alone, Don't think that you can afford everything simply because you've made money.
We need each other to keep going 
Drop pride